And the whole world came to a screeching halt

And the whole world came to a screeching halt…. so many emotions resonate with this feeling right now in our world today.  So many carrying grief of what they hoped would be: weddings, sports, senior Years, graduations, Retirements, funerals.  One day people had jobs, and the next day many found themselves in the unemployment line. 

Pain, grief, questions abound. 

And we wait. 

And the whole world came to a screeching halt… they hailed him.  Then they seized him. He gave his life painfully to death for us. The earth quaked, the vail was torn.  The whole world came to a screeching hault.  And in that moment, grief of what they hoped would be… died.  Where is their King? Where is the Kingdom? Was He not who He said? 

Pain, grief, questions abound.  

And they wait.

While the whole word waits, something stirs. It is restoration occurring.  Our schedules restored from the grip of hurry. Homes restored with laughter, connection, and creativity. Land and sea restored, natural beauty rising in the stillness of man. Seismic activity, even the smallest of quake, is being detected rather than drowned out by human noise. Surely in this restoration for our soul can be found.

Something stirred that glorious morning, when the breath of life entered back into our Savior.  Ultimate victory and restoration was made available to us all! Victory over sorrow.  Victory over death. Victory over circumstances.  Victory over expectations. Victory over fear and anxiety. 

Just as the smallest sounds of nature are being heard in our pause, may we accept the gift of stillness and sense His presence this weekend. May our quietened souls allow for our hearts to detect His voice this Easter. May it deepen and give way to deepest praise and gratitude as the sun rises tomorrow- our Easter morning! 

  

                                      He is near.  He speaks. 

                                He comforts. He is our restoration. 

                                    He is our Hope. He is Alive! 

Breathing thru the HITs of life...

You know that one.... maybe others mistake it for a sigh.... but you know what it is.  It's that moment where you take that deep breath and then.... get right back to it. 
On this little 80 day journey I'm on, I've made really REALLY good friends with the deep clearing breath.  6 days a week this program kicks my booty. Some days I find it enjoyable, but there are those handful of days I DREAD!!  I know I'm going to work way harder than I think I can. When the HIT training starts my heart quickly races... and sometimes my mind even joins in the fun. That's when I have to make a choice: I can either let things continue to be out of control and eventually succumb to the belief that I really can't...which usually leads to quitting OR I can make the choice to find my deep clearing breath and keep pushing.  I inhale all the fresh oxygen my body needs and I exhale the carbon dioxide... I start to notice my heart rate starts to respond to my efforts, and it becomes more controlled. All of the sudden, things start to settle. Both my heart and mind reset and I finish strong.  I have never regretted completing the hard workout. ever.
I've found myself using this concept in my life... long after the workout is over.  I mean, I'm a therapist... so I know the ins and outs of relaxation breathing techniques. There is a difference. This deep clearing breath takes place in the middle of the hard.  
I'm continuing in the hard, using the breath to allow me to indeed continue in the hard. 
Life is sometimes full of hard.  One might say that for some, and at times all, it is indeed High Intensity Training.  It doesn't let up.  The moment you have one thing tackled, 2 more things demand all you have.  
 Life starts to feel more like the never ending climb than that thing you dreamed of as a little girl.
The climb may not have a summit anywhere in sight...
 the weight of what you carry may feel heavier and heavier with each passing moment....
the feeling of climbing alone may have stolen your motivation to keep putting one foot in front of the other....
That is when your heart and mind say "I can't do one more hard step..."
But my dear friend... that.... that is the moment... to not fall into beliefs that have us anxious and overwhelmed....
  In the middle of life's heavy, you breath in truth... exhale lies... meanwhile moving your feet forward...  

Exhale "I can't do this..." Inhale "I can do all things..."
Exhale "Why am I being punished?" Inhale "All things work together for good..."
Exhale "this is too heavy for me..." Inhale "He will strengthen me with his hand..."

Take the deep clearing breath and feel your feet keep pounding up that mountain. It's in that moment that we our chaos and feelings of being out of control come under submission of a greater truth... I mean the chaos may continue... just like the workout... but it starts to FEEL differently... perspective shifts... and we start to notice that indeed our feet can climb what it thought it couldn't.
"The Sovereign LORD is my strength! He makes me as surefooted as a deer...  able to tread upon the heights."  Habakkuk 3:19

I dare you to move...

It's funny.  After yesterday's post I thought, oh boy... I haven't come very far from the sounds of it. 
But I started thinking, and reflecting about this journey in its entirety.  
From the outside in, it might not look so bad.  From my inside out, it seems like a rare breed of chaos and hope swirling around.  Some days, one... some days the other. 
I realized recently that I had allowed my emotional state to be ridden with what was actually sin.  
 self loathing.... 
inaccurate guilt
self pity
loss of joy for today
lack of thanksgiving
grumbling and complaining 
isolation
irritation and frustration (not the table flippin' kind)
making excuses for my thoughts and emotions as if I had good reason
All of this.  Sin.    What's interesting is this... since my post yesterday, I've had other women tell me they struggle with the same thought patterns BUT resulting from different circumstances.  Oh you crafty little devil. 
Our minds are powerful.  I know this because I work with people on the mind-heart connection. That's why Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy even exists. Thoughts impact behavior. Thoughts impact emotions that impact behavior. 
And so I've just left that to run wild for the sake of "processing" and in the name of "grief" ??
A sweet friend shared with me the lyrics to a song yesterday.  Several phrases struck me, but this one:
"I dare you to lift yourself up off the floor." 
Ok, ladies.  Whatever our circumstances.... maybe it's moving across the country or world... 
maybe its that opportunity that hasn't come... 
or that child that just didn't .... 
or the loss of someone that feels so unfair... 
or the loss of yourself as you raise those babies at home... 
or a body that doesn't work the way it once did... 
I dare you to lift yourself up off the floor. 
Again. Today.  And again tomorrow.  And the next day... and the next day... and the next... 
It feels exhausting to wake up and find yourself BACK ON THE FLOOR! ha. 
I can't speak for you.  But for me, my thought life has kept me there. 
 It's time for me to confess them, catch them, and take them straight to truth. 
We are in a battle.   We get to choose our weaponry.   I've stunk at that more days than not.  
But Powerless should never be in us. 
 For me, its a direct result of choosing the wrong weapons.
In Deuteronomy 1, Moses was pointing to the Israelites that the journey through the wilderness was an 11 day journey.  Ya'll.  ELEVEN DAYS!!!!!!!!!  And yet they wondered for FOURTY YEARS!! 
Their mind and hearts were in bondage although free!! 
 Sound familiar?!? 
Good Lawd!  I don't want this to take 40 years! 
"You have dwelt long enough on this mountain...  Behold I have set a land before you; go and take possession of the land." Deuteronomy 1:6-8 
He is saying "lift yourself up off the floor... get off the mountain...I've promised you a land to take, why are you still wondering around aimlessly up here?" 
This verse gave me a quick kick in the behind.
 I DO NOT want to be the one wallowing in my own miserable head for one more second. 
The Battle is real.
 But as I told my friend last night... It's on like Donkey Kong.  Cause I'm tired of this powerless, exhausting, overwhelming, earth dwelling mindset.  
So for today... this very morning... I'm lifting myself off the floor and throwing my belt of truth on... putting on my armor (against my OWN MIND)... and praying non-stop that  moment by moment... today... I will live in His power to live in Freedom already given to me.  
 I dare you to move.... 

Stolen Aspirations of the soul....

"Sadness discolors everything; it leaves all objects charmless; it involves future prospects in darkness; it deprives the soul of all its aspirations, enchains all its power and produces mental paralysis." - Streams in the Dessert

I've wanted to write 1,000 times.  What to say? How to say it?  Can I share it in such a way that it doesn't evoke pity but rather a stirring in one's own soul? 
The past 18 months, I have wrestled in the pit, with enemy and with God.  My mind has become a breeding ground for emotions that would rob God of all glory within me.  Deep grief has been at its root, with sadness- anger- and bitterness growing forth.  There were no words, no act of kindness, no provision that could overpower. 
As I entertained these thoughts and emotions, my actions became less and less... well... like me, and certainly not like Christ.  
"This isn't the way things were supposed to be." 
"This isn't what was promised to me." 
"No one cares, no one understands, get used to it.  It is the way of this new life." 
"I can't do this." 
"Why is it so hard here in this land where dreams become a reality?" (sarcasm) 
"How can I feel more fear and anxiety now than in Africa?" 
Powerless. Once great love vibrant with color became colorless... no charm... nothing left to be desired. 
"Why is He leaving me like this?" 
"Why is there no space for me here?"
"Why do my kids have to struggle?" 
And the questions continued to swirl in my mind and eventually became second nature. 
I was angered over the injustices my eyes were watching. 
I became infuriated at what seemed to be lost years never restored as promised... just leaving gaping holes and dreams staring you down on the other side of a barred window. 
I was so acutely aware of every fault, every "not enough", that just getting out of bed seemed pointless.  My very existence. Pointless.
Too much grief.  Too much change.  Too much loss. Too much loneliness. 
I struggled to look in the mirror and not become overwhelmed with the thought of "What has happened to me?  How did I get in this place?" 
Some say I died inside the day we left Zambia.  Many days I believed this. 
When you lose what was never meant to become who you are, the process can be very ugly and painful. 
Depression.  Lost Vision.  Anger.  
That was me. 
"Are you still in that place?" you may ask.  
And my answer?  
Yes.  Some days. Some days I get lost in the anxiety of future things. 
Some days I get exhausted and really lonely because life seems to be becoming LESS settled rather than more so. 
I still get angry at what feels undone, out of reach, or honestly just TOO HARD.  
I get tempted to have self pity.  After all "Who has 7 kids, works full time, and has no family to help?" 
Often I feel that it isn't fair that I had to return to a "new" place and go through my "worst" without life-long friends or family to remind me of who I truly am. 
But I'm learning... again... for the 785,987,463 time:  
I can choose to put my mind in a place that will allow my heart to follow. Some days are successful, some days aren't.  
 "You cannot have a positive life and a negative mind." 
  I confess I have been a person overwhelmed by the negative.  It has stolen my souls aspirations. It has robbed me from joy. It has taken opportunities from me to bless others. It has placed a darkness over all things within my home. 
I want to dream again.  
I want to release guilt over not doing things "just right" or making this whole transition into a real mess.  
I want to laugh... often and hard and a lot. 
I want to steady my mind on Him. Have laser focus on what matters and let all else fall away. 
I want forgiveness from those I love the most for dragging them through this emotional war. 
I want to accept this "next place" and pour myself out for His glory. 
I want thankfulness to be at the forefront of all I do.
(I'm just thankful that the "I want" phrase is there- Desire is half the battle)
So I'm hopeful that the coming year is better than the last.  That somehow the messes I've made will be redeemed and I will see the "why me" for this journey. 
"When you pass trough the waters, I will be with you; and the waves, they will not overcome you. When you walk through the fire; you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze. For I am the Lord your God." - Isaiah 43:2-3                                                           

Year Gone By....

A year and 20 days ago..... 
We left. 

No words or amount of sympathy could make it better. 
The pain of leaving my people, my community, my children (because surely by now you know there's more than 7) was beyond me. 

I honestly didn't think I would have the strength to do it... or at least people on the plane would surely be convinced of my insanity. 
But He strengthened my every step. 
I believe I talked quite a bit about the pain of leaving the place where my heart beats freest... 
And if you haven't read this post, do that now.  
That stupid toenail.   (I'd insert the photo I sent to Zambia to show them so we could laugh together but I'm thinking TMI)
What an unbelievably tangible way my Father has given to continue teaching me. 
 I know ya'll are gonna think I'm crazy (maybe its too late?) But... 
10 days after our 1 year of returning "home" .... 
my silly toenail fell off again!!
We were all a little shocked... and amused.  (because of course the boys haven't let their dad live down the fact that he ripped it off in the first place)
But you know what I noticed?
This time... it didn't hurt as much.  
It had clearly worked hard this past year trying to look "normal."
 I even disguised it with nail polish thinking maybe this Summer it wouldn't be quite so noticeably...
 different... 
damaged... 
broken... 
But, despite our great effort, 
I just couldn't keep the nail on.  
It is never going to look like it did before.  
To many eyes, it is pretty ugly. And that's ok.  
I'm never going to have that perfectly pedicured foot any longer.... 
and....
 I'm kinda embracing my imperfect toe. 
It is my alter stone. 
 The remembrance. 
Of what? 
Once, there was something really beautiful... but my identity wasn't attached to it as I once thought. 
When that something beautiful was ripped off of me... the pain was more than I could bare. 
But He spoke in it.  
Yes it  looked ugly, different, and imperfect.... 
But I can't be who I was before this beautiful thing.  
I can't hide it under fake....  or... empty and meaningless words...  or...    "culture" norms (Cause we all know Jesus was really good at that... ahem)
Because while the pain is nothing as it used to be,
 the reality that it's really never going to be like it was is ok.  
There's beauty in the hard...  in the pain...   in the imperfect.
No... I'd choose to look as if nothing had ever happened. 
 Its easier that way. 
Its more comfortable.  (for others more than me)
Less risky.  (because only calculated risk seems responsible  acceptable in the church)
But that's not my reality.  
My eyes can't unsee... 
My heart can't unfeel... 
My mind can't undo... 
He's shown me way too much of Himself for me to wallow in what used to be. 
So, the second year begins. 
There's really no promise that the result is going to be this beautifully, perfectly manicured life  (or toenail)... 
But I will see God's moving. 
I will not ignore His voice. 
I will pray that His love that so generously flowed out in a land strange to so many around me, will continue to overflow to those He has placed me before now. 
He is the same... I am not. 
I don't have to be, because He is. 
So this year, I'm embracing the imperfect.  
The things that didn't quite turn out the way I'd hoped for. 
Trusting completely in the one who takes all our crazy brokenness 
and lets His light shine brightly through the cracks. 
 And in that...  I sense the healing...  the purpose... 
and choose to not fight against the pain anymore... but to feel privileged to have experienced it. 
It's actually really beautiful. 

"I saw what I saw and I can't forget it. I heard what I heard and I can't go back I know what I know and I can't deny it
Something on the road, cut me to the soul
Your pain has changed me your dreams inspire your face a memory your hope a fire your courage asks me what I'm afraid of and what I know of love."
                                                                  --- Sara Groves

That time I was the Commercialized Mother... (in my dreams)

As Mother's Day has been approaching, I've been tuning my ear to all of the advertisements... they are everywhere... TV, Radio, my mailbox. 
This is my first Mother's Day in the US in 5 years.   (Maybe I hit one on furlough once, but that doesn't count because furlough is simply your brain fried.) 
Is it just me or are these advertisements really putting on the pressure?  
It could be the fact that when I think about my mothering (not to be confused with my MOTHER), I'm in a struggling phase right now.  

It's ok.  If you have only come across the sweet messages, let me help you with some of the ones I've come across. 
"Life doesn't come with a manual, It comes with a Mother."  (So, I guess that means I should know what I'm doing or have answers to stuff???)
"A mother's arms are made of tenderness and children sleep soundly in them." (Unless you are a teenager and then you fear her arms... )
"The loveliest masterpiece of the heart of God is the heart of a mother."  (So, my heart is HIS greatest masterpiece. eish... I'm thinking it's pretty messy. Ok, yeah, maybe once upon a time.)
"Most mothers are instinctive Philosophers."  (Great, now I have to be intelligent)
"Moms are like buttons- They hold everything together."  (Well, that explains why everything is a mess)
"Mothers and their children are in a category all their own. There's no bond so strong in the entire world. No love so instantaneous and forgiving."  (It's ok moms... who aren't having this blissful experience... )
"God could not be everywhere, and therefore he created mothers."  (Oh Good, now I'm a substitute for God Himself.) 
Anyone else feeling the pressure?
That loving, kind, mother making that yummy favorite all the time and greeting you with goodness.  
Sigh. 
I"m not that.  


Maybe instead of celebrating some falsehood, I'll simply celebrate the reality.... 
 that we actually MADE it through the year and we are all still TOGETHER.  
I dream of those fantastic commercials actually reflecting my reality. 
I want to be that... eventually. 
But for all of those mother's that don't fit into the commercial version of Mother's Day... You're not alone.  (Plus I keep telling myself that its only a facade. If people actually think they are that good, they need a dose of insight I'm sure. hahahahaha) 
Much love and Happy Mother's Day  to the tired, worn out,  can't find a dang thing,  grumpy,  trying as hard as she can mother,  or aunt, or grandmother, or foster mother... or whatever title you find yourself under.  (because sometimes just that is a mystery, too)   
(And don't soak into the lies, the great thing is that for the children who love you as the mother... you really are like a dream to them)

Oh deceiver...

Oh deceiver... you are good at what you do. 

You run thoughts & replay words through the mind ...
creating... 
doubt
insecurity
frustration
isolation
the second guess
the not enough
Yes, you are the author of all of these things.  
And Oh.. deceiver... how you use the ones we love the most to wreck havoc on the pieces of a broken heart. 
Yes, you are good at what you do. 
But you see.  I see you for what you are.  
You have always been the liar.
The doubt causer.
The one who isolates his prey in hopes for a kill
Just to capture one down trodden soul on their journey
Oh deceiver, I know your plan.  
You've been using it since the beginning.  
And yet, somehow, power is given over to your stupid little lies. 
But you see, deceiver, I know The Truth.  
And that... that is what will set me Free. 

Growing roots....

Well, it looks like I didn't forget how to write after all.  Ya'll, there is SO.MUCH. to say and process, but the time simply isn't right to share with the world.  You know, sometimes you need to walk through things without the world watching.... or knowing... but just pondering them in your own heart and with a few close friends. 
But... That's not the point of this post... so blah blah blah on that.  (looks like someone hasn't lost her sassy).  
It's been 9 short and long months since leaving Zambia.  It feels like yesterday and it feels like forever.  As we went through the debriefing process, they spent a lot of time talking about viewing your transplant like an actual plant.  The uprooting process .... the transplanting... and then the security of making your roots strong in the dirt where God has placed you.   Over the past 9 months, I've *tried* to put some roots down.... I'll give myself a C+. During this time, some things have become more clear for the hubs and I.  
1. We aren't really subdivision people anymore. (I never was for the record)
2. We want more space to grow, not just our children, but stuff... like food and maybe a pig (and chickens) 
3. We see value in small town living, and hope to find community there. 
We realize that our life seems like a ball of chaos.  That's not our goal.  
But our goal is to never be so tied to what we have that we can't hear God's voice and have the courage to let go and follow. 
 I am so tempted to have this dream that this will be "it."  That this will be the home where our children come home to, and bring their children to, and where we grow old together.  
But then there's this other side.  
I never want my roots to grow deeper in a PLACE than they are IN HIM.  
I want my roots, and my children's roots to be in HIM.  
Everything else is an illusion.    There is no security in a place.    There is no guaranteed forever in a home.    Not in things. 
Not in neighbors. 
Not in a job. 
The only secure place we can put our roots down is in Him.  
I always want to remain willing to take my roots in Him and GO anywhere He leads.   There is security in that.   Our children can find security in that.   We are TOGETHER in Him.  
So, as we look forward to what this next stage brings of building a home on a little farm, and taking our roots and placing them in a small town... we hold this verse in hand:
"Let your ROOTS grow down into HIM.   And Let your Lives be built on HIM.   Then your FAITH will grow STRONG in the TRUTH you were taught...  and you will OVERFLOW with THANKFULNESS." Colossians 2:7

The process of Untangling....

 It's been 7 weeks since I left part of myself in Zambia.  7 weeks.  Yet it feels like a lifetime ago.  
I feel like theres so much to share and yet I simply can't yet... stories of laughter, tears, where God showed up in big ways.  Things that right now are just held deeply in my heart in a secret place. 
Right before we left Zambia, our boarding students and staff gave us an unbelievable amazing party.  And at this party, we had a volleyball tournament, because we used to play a LOT of volleyball.  
During this great and intense tournament (because, in case you didn't know, I'm super competitive and have no mercy.  Ok actually I usually get my face smashed, but I feel like I'm Kerri Walsh Jennings) .... ok back to the tournament... After the McB family beat the kids (I told you no mercy) Then we proceeded to the staff.  Shane and I went up for a block at the same time (which is a site within itself) and He came down with his big ole shoe on my toenail... the edge of it just right.  BOOM! Horrific pain ran up my leg and as I looked down my big toenail had been popped completely off from the root.  woah.  SUB! 
As I sat with this thing soaking in water, and the pain shooting up... God was just like "this... this is what your heart looks like and feels like right now.  Your toe is a visible picture of your emotional pain.  And this will hurt.  And it will take a LONG time to heal.  Actually, it might not ever look the same again.  And that's ok."  
And there it was, a message in my pain.  
7 weeks later... when my grace starts to run out... When I feel like "why can't I get myself together?"  ...when I feel like I've totally lost myself and have no idea what I'm doing here... 
I look at my toe.  And I laugh.  And cry.  And add a lot of grace to my life and to the life of my family.  
Because my toe still looks kinda yucky.  Thus, it is my measure.  It's ok that I still feel and look a little yucky too.  Because it hasn't been long enough to heal.  
The other day I noticed that theres a nail starting to grow, and I had hope.  Hope that something new is growing in the life of our family.  Hope that God is going to do something NEW in us.   And it will all take time.  
Honestly, I start and end my day with thoughts of Zambia.   I drive down the smoothly paved roads craving for a pothole.  I look around wanting to find people walking or standing on the side of the road... or the smell of exhaust and dust mixed while the wind blows through my hair.  And let's not even start how I long to be there for the children who call me mom.  
I am fully in the process of Untangling grief.  And there are good days, and bad days.  Our family is walking through this together with laughs and tears and memories and uncertainty... 
" He is before all things...And by Him all things Hold together...." Col. 1:17

Our Needs made known...

Well, it happened.  We have landed. Delirious and emotional. 
While we do not know for certain when the next time our feet will hit Zambian soil, we know that we can't go that long... 
And while I have a million thoughts and emotions processing through my mind right now, I'm choosing to wait on sharing those. 
However, Here's what can't wait.  Recently we sent out a letter to our faithful support team making our needs known for this transition.  We totally get that serving in the US is much less "glamorous" than serving in Zambia. (I mean, I'd rather be THERE if you weren't picking up on that)
But, to have our needs met here are important as well, and we must let our needs be known.  Here is the letter that we have sent and ways in which many people can help.  Maybe you can only help a little, maybe you can help a lot... That's not for me to determine. For us, we will be faithful in making our needs known. 

Dearest Friends, Family, and Supporters…

We pray that this letter finds you well, and enjoying the warmer weather where you are.  As for us, we are in our winter and the coolness feels nice. 

Our time in Zambia is quickly coming to a close, and the weeks and months ahead feel very scary, painful, and strange.  We are certainly in the grieving process amidst the very busy season of teams, interns, and change.   Things have been given away, sold, and the house is starting to look empty of things, but certainly not children.  The house says “something big is about to happen.”  One room is piled with things that we are bringing home.  That squeezing your life into 14 bags… again… feels familiar but unwelcome.

However, despite our own emotions, things on the ground are going well.  We continue to look forward to 4 more boarding homes being completed by the end of the year, and a total of 100 students in boarding for next year.  Currently there are 74! Plans continue to be made towards growth for the future, and students continue to be serious about their learning and are producing good results.  The forward momentum continues, and will continue.  The program is solid and we have made a plan for the responsibilities to be divided and therefore conquered.  Shane will continue to observe reports and be available to leadership on the ground while he is in the US office.  Next year we will have our first graduating class!  We so pray our family (or at least part) is able to return for that celebration. 

As in a previous email, we will remain on support for the next 12-18 months.  We so desire for you to continue your support as our family transitions.  It is necessary for us to continue with the ministry God has placed us in.  In addition, we have some one-time needs that are coming our way because of the relocation.  We have been very blessed with families advocating for us to collect a lot of things needed for our return.  If you have been one of those who have donated furniture, etc… we are so so grateful. 

We would be so grateful if you would consider a one-time gift to help our family transition back to the US.  Some of the one time expenses we have coming to us are listed below:

·      Immigration Fees for our 2 oldest children ($5,000)

·      A second car/van for our growing family ($7,500)

·      Medical exams/checkups/etc for our children to enter school ($1,000)

·      Plane tickets & school fees for our 2 foster boys: Brian and Webby ($8,000)

We have not made very many requests over the last 5 years.  We’ve rarely asked for an increase in giving to our personal support.  We ask that you prayerfully consider a one-time gift to help our family transition well.  If you are unable to do so, but able to increase giving for a period of time, we ask that you prayerfully consider that.  We look forward to a time where we are able to transition off of support, but we always welcome opportunities to see God’s faith stretching provision. 

Beyond giving, we truly covet your prayers.  There are many many details that must come together in the next couple of weeks.  Pray for emotional endurance, a good ending of a season here in Zambia, wisdom for the steps ahead, and the hearts of our children especially.  Pray we would be wise in making the many decisions necessary to transition from another country.  Pray for the people and children we leave behind.  Pray for the VISA appointments for our foster children, that they would be granted the student visa allowing them to remain a part of our family.  (Surprise! Many of you didn’t know we have more than 5!) Please pray for provision.  Pray for protection for the family we leave behind.  Pray for good, Godly friends for my children as we start a new life in Normal, IL. 

Words cannot express how grateful we are to each of you.  Tears feel my eyes and my heart feels like it will explode with gratitude.  The work that has taken place here over the last 5 years is a product of YOUR faithfulness.  It would NOT have happened without YOU.  God is at work, and I believe that in Heaven… if not before… some of our Zambian children will thank you.  Their lives are changed forever.  And, this is not the end.  My vision remains for this place and these children.  We still have work to do and we pray you will continue that with us!

We will be sending an update as soon as we get settled in the US.  Please feel free to call us or email us anytime.  After June 16^th, you can reach us at 423-404-3334.  Our email and giving information is below. 

We love you all beyond words! Nalikutemwa! (We love you!)

          Shane, Mitzi, James, Paul, Zack, Kaytie, & Elijah

Giving information:

Check and Mail: Please make checks payable to “Lifesong for Orphans” and mail them to: 

Lifesong for Orphans, PO Box 40 Gridley, IL 61744

 *In the memo line, please write “McBride:  97800"

Online Giving:

https://www.lifesongfororphans.org/get-involved/support-a-lifesong-missionary/one-time